It's their last control. They want everyone else to suffer. They have to be offered a plea deal. Or get something out of giving the information. Which infuriates me!!! They see it done. They are going to do it too.
It is what almost all these sick Pieces of S do. Some wouldn't give it up even for a CHANCE at ever getting out, only or something like release and God forbid we ever go there.
It's easy to say as I haven't lived it but here is what I tell myself in cases of no remains. God has them. Whether they went up in the Twin Towers and nothing was left, whether they have never been found but one knows or is pretty sure a body is out there somewhere, whether a flight went down in an ocean and remains have never been found, no matter what it is, God has them. I havent' lived it so I can't talk to it and I know people need to feel they've laid loved ones to rest and found them and have a grave to go to. But still, God has them. And that's not them, it is their physical remainder of remains. I know you are different than me and may disagree but I do NOT go and visit the graves of all the lost in our family. I have been due to reasons with someone else. For me it isn't where they are. For me I talk to them every day or in my head I do. I don't know how to put it and again I haven't lived never having remains although we did go through quite a time on teh baby but it isn't there soul, it is not where they truly rest or truly are. I think you will get me to a point because of our beliefs.
Now in a case where it is necessary to help prosecute, to have a body that is different and I SURELY do get someone needing the remains to get closure and more info on what happened and I MOST CERTAINLY GET treating the remains with some honor and doing what you last can for them after someone took them out unfairly and did not treat them right. I get all of that. But these victims are with God and in such a case or event I'd comfort myself that way. And the evil POS who wont' give it up if already in prison, well then he thinks he has more power than he does. If not convicted or needing a body to even get a case prosecuted that is a different story.
Not sure if I am making any sense but to not have a body means they are not at peace kind of means anyone who ever had a family member disintegrated or last at sea means their loved one is not at peace and with God? No, of course it does not. Imo. I went with my ome when I was there and we were doing something for the baby's grave. And while there, I had never been we went to my broehr's and dad's and I fell apart. My other brother is buried in another cemetery but still near family and in the same county.
I don't go though and hadn't. And major major hugs and praise to my sisters and mother who do and keep things up there. I just have never been one to believe that's where they are. I k now they don't either in the realm of eternal life but I truly don't. And of course I'd have as big of a problem as anyone if someone wrecked their resting place or some such.
Every single birthday or date of death or father's day or you name it is huge on me every single year as I KNOW you identify with and all do. But I don't need to be att the grave site to honor them or talk to them in my head or to God although there is total understanding from me in doing so, and I have and would too. And sometimes I feel their presence and I am nowhere near where they were laid to rest.
Not sure I am making sense but for some reason I think you will get me. I so would fight and I havt these evil Pieces of that won't give up a body location and I DO GET the family needing it. I do. I would fight tooth and nail for it and the right to give my loved one a kind and right laying to rest and time for family to no end.
I would however comfort myself in knowing no matter what happened, natural, murder or otherwise, they are with God and where their bones lay is not where they are.
Probably a way off the norm kind of post and not typical response to this but if it helps even one person who doesn't get their loved one back, I think it worth it.
Sure I know where mine lie but I also don't need the place to honor or visit them as they are most definitely are not there. They are elsewhere and on occasion they are with us still. They are always WITH US but what I mean is when they make their presence known and you know they are REALLY with you.
Okay, call me out. As an off the wall kind of response lol. However, I truly believe every word of it and it is how I I would find comfort if ever we did not have the remains or know where they were after being upset to no end and I would pursue forever the chance of getting themand want them fond, do not get me WRONG, I WOULD. To have answers, to lay to rest and treat them with respect after someone else not doing so and so on. But if it never happened, I would comfort self believing this. And I would never ever ever let someone out or make a deal as a family member to have them return or point the remains. It would be tough but I woudln't ever let a monster back on the street to do it to someone else's loved one. Because God has them.
So to come back to a more normal plane, yeah he can hold his last bit of control and hope to be a free man YEAH RIGHT. If in his shoes, trade the info for a Snickers bar you dumbarse because if anyone ever deals for more than that or a lightening of your sentence, or release, then the system is so far gone it is unrecoverable.
I know, I know, a diatribe not expected. I've had a lot of loss and I know what comforts me and has barely gotten me through. And it is such beliefs.
I don't think my loved ones are ever in the cemetery unless maybe one of us are there and they know the need. And I'm not one that's there. But I for sure have had them around. I need to go back to a long unposted in thread of stuff about this that was quite a thread. Tracker was really on it a lot and we have no idea to this day do we or does anyone what happened to him?
I am way off I guess this being about Joe but it is. He is a child and he is with God. I doubt the pieces of filth around him ever will be. But I'm not the judge of that.