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WA OAKLEY CARLSON: Missing from Oakville, WA - 10 Feb 2021 - Age 5

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Parents in custody after 5-year-old Grays Harbor County child goes missing​

The parents of a missing 5-year-old girl from Grays Harbor County are in custody and considered persons of interest as the search for their daughter continues.

The Grays Harbor County Sheriff's Office is asking for the public's help in finding Oakley Carlson, an Oakville resident.

Her parents were arrested Monday on charges of obstruction of law enforcement and first-degree manslaughter.

Detectives consider the circumstances surrounding the child's disappearance suspicious.

Detectives and search and rescue workers are searching the home and property where Carlson lives. The investigation is in its initial stages.

Law enforcement became involved when they were asked to check on the welfare of Carlson by a concerned person.

An exact date of when the child was last seen has not been verified.


MEDIA - OAKLEY CARLSON: Missing from Oakville, WA - Date Unknown - Age 5
 
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Foster family seeks ‘mandated’ fatality report four months after Oakley Carlson declared legally deceased​

Oakley Carlson, the missing 5-year-old Oakville girl declared deceased this past August, would be turning 9 on Saturday.

Four years after her disappearance, foster parents Jamie Jo and Erik Hiles continue to seek answers, according to a news release from Light the Way Missing Persons Advocacy Project.

The family is still awaiting the fatality report from the Office of the Family and Children’s Ombuds (OFCO), four months after a Pacific County judge made his legal ruling declaring Oakley deceased.

According to the release, Jamie Jo Hiles first filed a complaint with OFCO in 2022, requesting a review of Washington Department of Children, Youth, and Families’ (DCYF) handling of the case.

Oakley was officially declared missing in 2021. She had been living with her biological parents, Andrew Carlson and Jordan Bowers.

“In June 2022, Jamie Jo spoke with then-OFCO Director Patrick Dowd regarding Oakley’s case,” the release states. “At that time, he described the case as ‘unusual’ because it had not yet been officially declared a fatality.”

According to the release, Dowd “made it clear” that once Oakley was declared deceased, the department would be legally required to conduct a review, indicating the public was entitled to know if errors within the public welfare system had occurred.

Dowd reportedly added that records should be “fully reviewed and reported.”

The Hiles family is now requesting the OFCO complete the mandated fatality review, which is required by law and must be produced by the Fatality Review Team, according to Light the Way.

“Four months have passed since Oakley was legally declared deceased, and we are still waiting for the fatality review that should have begun immediately,” Jamie Jo Hiles stated. “That delay is not only unacceptable, it reflects a failure of the duty Washington State owes every child in its care. Oakley’s life mattered, and the truth about what happened to her will not be buried simply because it is uncomfortable or inconvenient for the system. We expect transparency as well as accountability. We will not step back or stay silent until the failures that allowed her to be lost are fully acknowledged.”
 

Oakley Carlson still missing after five years​

Oakley Carlson has been missing since Feb. 10, 2021, from Oakville.

Oakley was just 4 years old when she was last seen, and her disappearance remains unresolved. She spent her early years in a loving foster home where she thrived, before being returned to her biological parents in 2019.

In late 2021, following a fire at the family’s home, a concerned school principal requested a welfare check. Deputies responding to that call discovered Oakley had not been seen for many months. She was discovered missing on Dec. 6, 2021, nearly 10 months after she was last seen.

Oakley was a bright, loving child who brought joy to those around her. Her disappearance continues to deeply affect her former foster family and a community that has searched tirelessly for answers.

Both of Oakley’s biological parents remain suspects and have faced charges unrelated to her disappearance, yet no one has been held accountable for what happened to Oakley.


A $100,000 reward is currently being offered for information leading to Oakley’s whereabouts.
 
State fatality review details DCYF gaps and strengths in missing Oakley Carlson case
After more than four years of uncertainty in the disappearance of Oakley Carlson, a state-required child fatality review has laid out what went right — and what fell short — in the child welfare system’s handling of her case.

Oakley disappeared from Grays Harbor County more than four years ago. She would be nine years old now. But after she was declared legally dead in July 2025, a fatality report was triggered, reviewing actions taken by the Washington State Department of Children, Youth, and Families.

The findings show that over an eight-year period, 14 calls were made to DCYF about the family. The report offered some commendations for staff but also highlighted what DCYF described as “improvement opportunities.” Jamie Jo Hiles, Oakley Carlson’s former foster mother, said the report was difficult to read.

“I mean, honestly, when I read through it, it was just disheartening to read the countless red flags that were presented in regards to Oakley and her siblings,” Hiles said.

Hiles said the findings were not what she had hoped for.

“Like, how many times did I call? How many times were there things that were brought up?” Hiles said.

According to law enforcement, Oakley’s parents, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, are persons of interest in her disappearance more than four years ago. Oakley’s biological parents served time for unrelated charges, including child endangerment and identity theft, but have never been charged in Oakley’s disappearance.

In July, she was declared legally dead by a Pacific County judge, triggering the state child fatality report, which is required by law.

The report offers no final recommendations, but outlines areas for improvement, including in part, more training for DCYF and school personnel on family isolation and domestic violence dynamics; better quality oversight of any contracted assessments; improved documentation practices; addressing gaps in rural services; and better foster parent support and resources.

Hiles said the review’s tone was hard to accept. The review also suggested better communication with foster families. Hiles said she felt she did her part to over-communicate.

“I mean, it kind of felt like a little bit of a slap in the face,” she said.

In an email, DCYF said it sought to end the mother’s parental rights in 2018, but the dependency case was already being appealed in court by Oakley’s biological mother. The judge granted the appeal, and the case never went to a termination trial. Instead, the court entered trial return home as the mother began engaging with services. DCYF said it tried again to seek a change to the permanency plan in 2019 but was denied by the courts. The agency also noted that DCYF’s trial return home is six months, which is longer than most other states.


The report also highlighted aspects of the case handled well by DCYF staff, including long-term caseworkers’ persistence, team building, patience, efforts to engage parents and support groups, and efforts to bring in other experts and partners for insight and expertise.

“The committee discussions explore systemic challenges, suggested areas for improvement, and aspects of the case handled well by DCYF staff, as identified by the Committee. While these insights inform broader learning and potential systemic improvements, they do not represent formal findings or policy positions of DCYF. Improvement opportunities are defined as the gap between what the family needed and what they received from the child welfare system. Improvement opportunities may also identify systemic barriers,” DCYF wrote in an email to KOMO News.
 

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