In my experience with nearly any teen I've known, I've come to the conclusion that most teens need MORE actual supervision than most 9 year olds! I wish I was kidding.I just finished reading several things. Anna had two full siblings a brother 14 and a sister 9. Shauntel the stepmom came with two kids, one 16 and one 9.
Pretty sure it was the 14 year old full brother of Anna who left the room and took pictures. Either the two youngest siblings were not on the cruise or shared a room with the folks which I doubt.
Maybe they felt younger ones would have to be supervised and left them home with someone.
TEENS need supervision too of which there seems to have been NONE.
I know and agree. Before I had teens I recall thinking those years would be easier than the younger years. Ha ha. Wrong I was.In my experience with nearly any teen I've known, I've come to the conclusion that most teens need MORE actual supervision than most 9 year olds! I wish I was kidding.
Not taking the stepbrother's behavior seriously appears to be the main problem. Families have issues. Parents make errors. But, if Anna really did tell any of her parents that her stepbrother made her uncomfortable and they still had them share a room on the ship, that was beyond the pale.I'd add though I always knew better than to ever create a situation as they did here housing them in the same room and ignoring the behavior of her stepbrother.
In my book the parents that went on this trip with the kids with these accommodations, basically set it up to happen. Yes, the kid is responsible for his actions, but the parents made it possible. Get another room so the girls can have their space and the boys can have theirs or don't go.Not taking the stepbrother's behavior seriously appears to be the main problem. Families have issues. Parents make errors. But, if Anna really did tell any of her parents that her stepbrother made her uncomfortable and they still had them share a room on the ship, that was beyond the pale.
Agreed. And this is a perfect example of why this is imperative in mixed families.In my book the parents that went on this trip with the kids with these accommodations, basically set it up to happen. Yes, the kid is responsible for his actions, but the parents made it possible. Get another room so the girls can have their space and the boys can have theirs or don't go.
She may not have with trying to keep the peace or not wanting to upset the stepmother, hard to say, BUT the ex bf supposedly did tell them.Not taking the stepbrother's behavior seriously appears to be the main problem. Families have issues. Parents make errors. But, if Anna really did tell any of her parents that her stepbrother made her uncomfortable and they still had them share a room on the ship, that was beyond the pale.
Oh yeah, he is responsible for all he did but separately the parents absolutely did wrong.In my book the parents that went on this trip with the kids with these accommodations, basically set it up to happen. Yes, the kid is responsible for his actions, but the parents made it possible. Get another room so the girls can have their space and the boys can have theirs or don't go.I
Reports stated they were already having a bitter divorce, so I'm sure NOTHING will make bio dad believe his ex has been making any good decisions, at this point.Oh yeah, he is responsible for all he did but separately the parents absolutely did wrong.
As much as I judge these parents though, I don't agree with the stepson's bio dad saying the mother jeopardized his future. She definitely did not exercise good decision making in putting them in a room together but he still made the choice he did. Other kids could have been put in a room together and have behaved and never made this choice.
The future that was ended and jeopardized was Anna's being put in a room with what I am so far thinking of as a teenaged monster.
They kinda did though. They are 100% responsible for making the arrangements that allowed this to happen the way it did.Oh yeah, he is responsible for all he did but separately the parents absolutely did wrong.
As much as I judge these parents though, I don't agree with the stepson's bio dad saying the mother jeopardized his future. She definitely did not exercise good decision making in putting them in a room together but he still made the choice he did. Other kids could have been put in a room together and have behaved and never made this choice.
The future that was ended and jeopardized was Anna's being put in a room with what I am so far thinking of as a teenaged monster.
And they handed him more ammo, served on a silver platter. One would think parents involved in a bitter custody battle would be on their best behavior as to not give the other party more to have for their advantage.Reports stated they were already having a bitter divorce, so I'm sure NOTHING will make bio dad believe his ex has been making any good decisions, at this point.
Yeah. He calls her husband (Anna's dad) her "paramour" in the filings too. Kind of makes it sound like she took the kids on a cruise with her lover.Reports stated they were already having a bitter divorce, so I'm sure NOTHING will make bio dad believe his ex has been making any good decisions, at this point.
Yes but he still did it. I suspect he would have done so at some point, if not on the ship, then at home, etc.They kinda did though. They are 100% responsible for making the arrangements that allowed this to happen the way it did.
That's probably what their reasoning is going to be. However, if the stepbrother is only 2 years younger than she is, that's not a good reason.Maybe the 18 year old sibling was supposed to be watching the younger ones? I will wait till further info comes out as it is pretty confusing at present.