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WA OAKLEY CARLSON: Missing from Oakville, WA - 10 Feb 2021 - Age 5

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Parents in custody after 5-year-old Grays Harbor County child goes missing​

The parents of a missing 5-year-old girl from Grays Harbor County are in custody and considered persons of interest as the search for their daughter continues.

The Grays Harbor County Sheriff's Office is asking for the public's help in finding Oakley Carlson, an Oakville resident.

Her parents were arrested Monday on charges of obstruction of law enforcement and first-degree manslaughter.

Detectives consider the circumstances surrounding the child's disappearance suspicious.

Detectives and search and rescue workers are searching the home and property where Carlson lives. The investigation is in its initial stages.

Law enforcement became involved when they were asked to check on the welfare of Carlson by a concerned person.

An exact date of when the child was last seen has not been verified.


MEDIA - OAKLEY CARLSON: Missing from Oakville, WA - Date Unknown - Age 5
 
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Parents of Grays Harbor County girl, 5, held after child goes missing, sheriff's office
The Grays Harbor Sheriff's Office on Tuesday asked for the public's help in finding a missing 5-year-old girl who law enforcement authorities suspect may have been the victim of foul play.

The parents of Oakley Carlson, who lives in a rural area just outside of Oakville, Wash., are considered persons of interest in connection with the girl's disappearance and were being held at the Gray Harbor County Jail, according to Undersheriff Brad Johansson.

According to the jail log, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, the girl's parents, were both being held on suspicion of manslaughter. It was not immediately clear if bond has been set in the case.

Investigators said it was not clear when the little girl was last seen but a concerned neighbor asked law enforcement officers to conduct a welfare check on Monday.

Johansson said the parents were located but they could not find the girl. It was not immediately clear what led investigators to suspect the parents were involved in their daughter's disappearance.


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Those don't quite look like parents of the year mugshots.
 
I'll never forget Oakley in an instant when seeing the name but I will say this case has been pretty darned quiet. More POS parents. It's time something happens here and justice results. Be nice if she was found too of COURSE.

What's been done to the agency? Are the parents still in jail?? WHERE is Oakley? Foster mother did a reward for her. Real parents are pieces of EXCREMENT.

@Mel70 Where are you? Worried about you.
 
Mother of missing Washington girl Oakley Carlson released from prison
Jordan Bowers, the mother of missing Oakville girl Oakley Carlson, was released from custody Tuesday, according to a Department of Corrections spokesperson on Wednesday.

Bowers was released from the Washington Corrections Center for Women in Gig Harbor after serving her sentence and she is still set to be under community supervision for a year.

No charges have been filed in Oakley's disappearance, as neither she nor any remains have been found.
 

Sheriff eyes no-body prosecution of mother suspected in child’s disappearance​

Prosecutors and law enforcement are considering a no-body prosecution of the mother of Oakley Carlson in connection with the child’s disappearance in 2021.

The Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office confirmed Wednesday that Jordan Bowers remains a person of interest in the case. Bowers was released the same day from the Washington Corrections Center for Women in Gig Harbor after serving time for an unrelated identity theft conviction.

“The Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office continues to actively investigate this case, and we are working closely with the Grays Harbor County Prosecutor’s Office looking into a no-body homicide prosecution,” the sheriff’s office said. “Our office remains committed to seeking justice for Oakley.”

Grays Harbor County Sheriff Darrin Wallace said the girl’s parents are the only suspects in the case, but investigators do not have any physical evidence tying them to the disappearance.
 
Missing girl Oakley Carlson declared legally dead by court as questions continue to swirl
More than four years after her disappearance, Oakley Carlson, a missing girl from Oakville, has been quietly declared legally dead by a Washington state court.

According to court records filed in Pacific County Superior Court, Oakley was officially declared dead in August 2025. The probate case was entered on Aug.12 and names Oakley as deceased.

No official press release was made for this update, and the court has not released additional details regarding the ruling or the reasons behind the filing.


Despite an extensive investigation, no remains have been found, and no one has been charged in connection with her disappearance.

Law enforcement officials continued to classify her case as an open and active investigation and have repeatedly stated that Oakley's parents, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, remain persons of interest.


Oakley would have been 8 years old this year. A $100,000 reward was previously offered for information leading to her recovery or resolution of the case.
 

Oakley Carlson's former foster mom shocked by court declaring missing child dead​

Jamie Jo Hiles, Oakley’s former foster mom who lives in Grays Harbor County, told KING 5 she learned of the court’s decision only after seeing it in an online court record.

“Oakley was declared deceased in Pacific County, and that came as a complete shock to us,” Hiles said. “Just because, why Pacific County? And also like, on what basis?”

Court records show an attorney for Oakley’s siblings filed the motion to declare her dead. The filing does not state a reason for the request, but Hiles suspects the decision was financially motivated.

“This was very much ... secret, shady,” said Hiles.

Hiles said in May earlier this year, the siblings' attorney asked her to help declare Oakley deceased so her siblings could inherit her estate. She declined.

“No, I’m not interested in that, because we are working on the criminal case,” Hiles said.

She added that while she wishes peace and stability for Oakley’s siblings, she believes the way the declaration was handled was insensitive.

“Doing something like this behind closed doors, without involving those who truly loved Oakley, is not advocacy,” she said. “It feels like opportunism.”

An attorney for the guardian ad litem for Oakley Carlson's siblings issued a statement Monday, explaining why they sought to have Oakley declared dead:

"As counsel for Oakley and her surviving siblings, we made the difficult decision to have Oakley declared deceased, given the evidence we have reviewed thus far and the passage of time since she was reported missing. We made this decision in consultation and with the support of Oakley’s biological family.

"We want to clarify that the request to legally declare Oakley Carlson deceased also serves the purpose of obtaining critical records and information necessary to fulfill the obligations of Oakley’s Guardian to investigate and assess the physical abuse, neglect, and emotional abuse experienced by Oakley and her siblings while under the care and custody of the State of Washington."


The spokesperson said the step was "not taken lightly" and does not reflect any conclusions or facts regarding ongoing law enforcement investigations into Oakley's whereabouts. The death declaration will allow access to certain sealed records, medical documentation and other information pertinent to ongoing court proceedings involving Oakley's siblings. The spokesperson clarified that the declaration was made in open court, not a decision made behind closed doors.
 

Oakley Carlson's former foster mom shocked by court declaring missing child dead​

Jamie Jo Hiles, Oakley’s former foster mom who lives in Grays Harbor County, told KING 5 she learned of the court’s decision only after seeing it in an online court record.

“Oakley was declared deceased in Pacific County, and that came as a complete shock to us,” Hiles said. “Just because, why Pacific County? And also like, on what basis?”

Court records show an attorney for Oakley’s siblings filed the motion to declare her dead. The filing does not state a reason for the request, but Hiles suspects the decision was financially motivated.

“This was very much ... secret, shady,” said Hiles.

Hiles said in May earlier this year, the siblings' attorney asked her to help declare Oakley deceased so her siblings could inherit her estate. She declined.

“No, I’m not interested in that, because we are working on the criminal case,” Hiles said.

She added that while she wishes peace and stability for Oakley’s siblings, she believes the way the declaration was handled was insensitive.

“Doing something like this behind closed doors, without involving those who truly loved Oakley, is not advocacy,” she said. “It feels like opportunism.”

An attorney for the guardian ad litem for Oakley Carlson's siblings issued a statement Monday, explaining why they sought to have Oakley declared dead:

"As counsel for Oakley and her surviving siblings, we made the difficult decision to have Oakley declared deceased, given the evidence we have reviewed thus far and the passage of time since she was reported missing. We made this decision in consultation and with the support of Oakley’s biological family.

"We want to clarify that the request to legally declare Oakley Carlson deceased also serves the purpose of obtaining critical records and information necessary to fulfill the obligations of Oakley’s Guardian to investigate and assess the physical abuse, neglect, and emotional abuse experienced by Oakley and her siblings while under the care and custody of the State of Washington."


The spokesperson said the step was "not taken lightly" and does not reflect any conclusions or facts regarding ongoing law enforcement investigations into Oakley's whereabouts. The death declaration will allow access to certain sealed records, medical documentation and other information pertinent to ongoing court proceedings involving Oakley's siblings. The spokesperson clarified that the declaration was made in open court, not a decision made behind closed doors.
Her "estate"?
 
Yeah I’m not sure what kind of “estate” a 5 year old with drug addicts for parents would have. Maybe some income because she was a ward of the state / in the foster care system at one point? But that would go away if she’s declared dead, I think. So…no idea.
Something was said about records they can access. I'm not sure why they needed her declared dead to see them.
 
I am wondering if she died in the fire and they disposeď of her remains, hence the mention of manslaughter rather than murder.

LE and the school must know when she last attended and the school bus stopped picking her up.

The fire was when exactly? Nov '21? And when did she stop going to school?

I see post 25 states family members had not seen her since Dec 2020. (Probably Christmas?)

The date in the thread heading states 10th Feb 2021. (Post 86 states February 2021 from LE.)
 
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Yeah I’m not sure what kind of “estate” a 5 year old with drug addicts for parents would have. Maybe some income because she was a ward of the state / in the foster care system at one point? But that would go away if she’s declared dead, I think. So…no idea.
She has a reward fund that was already at $80k some time ago so maybe someone wants to get their hands on that.
 
It sounds to me as if the estate will be from pursuing a claim against the State of WA.

It's very doubtful she has any other estate unless say a grandparent or other bequeathed something in trust to her and I'd say that's doubtful.

While I'm all for the children getting justice and DCFs that did not do their job being sued, knowing more about this would be good. What bio family for instance was talked to and support this? Who has the other childlren? I suspect this atty expects his fees to come from a court award after success in a case or from a settlement.
 
I'm sure they didn't call 911 for the fire because of "something" in the house, whether it be evidence of foul play or evidence of drugs/weapons or other illegal activity or my bet is a combination of those things. TWO phones that "couldn't be found" is rather odd. One not being found is very common, but two?? If the fire wasn't bad enough to even call the fd, then they had time to look for and find at least one phone, I would think.
 

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