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IN HAYDEN MANIS: Missing from Muncie, IN - 11 Jan 2020 - Age 4 - reported 2024

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From what I can gather, custody of Hayden was given back to his father around 2019. The rest of Hayden's family hasn't seen him since Christmas 2019 or early 2020.
Nothing was reported until earlier this year, sounds like around October. Dad apparently said CPS came and took Hayden back to mom or to foster care. Mom says she never got him back.
It sounds like the father may have passed away not too long ago.

Unfortunately, not very much official / LE information out there yet. Mostly just social media pleas from mom and other family for info.


Media: HAYDEN MANIS: Missing from Muncie, IN - 11 Jan 2020 - Age 4 - reported 2024
 
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In the Matter of the Paternity of Hayden I. L. Manis




Case Number05C01-1803-JP-000037
CourtBlackford Circuit Court
TypeJP - Juvenile Paternity
Filed03/22/2018
Status03/26/2018 , Decided


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Williams, Terri L.
Manis, Hayden I. L.
Manis, Dustin G. M.
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Petition to Establish Child Support Filed
Joint Verified Petition for Paternity, Custody, Support and Parenting Time
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Manis, Dustin G. M.
File Stamp:
03/22/2018​
Order Establishing Paternity
Order on Joint Verified Petition for Paternity, Custody, Support and Parenting Time entered establishing paternity; petitioner to have custody of child; parenting time established; no child support order established; provides for payment of medical expenses and tax dependency of minor child; and, provides for medical insurance coverage of minor child. cmc
Order Signed:
03/26/2018​
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Order Establishing Paternity ---- 3/26/2018 : Hayden I. L. Manis​
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Why did I even take a look. What is wrong with me,

FOUR years and no one reported, am I folllowing that right? And he's ONLY four or would be? Or eight, was four when dad got him?

SOMETHING needs to CHANGE. We have seen so MANY of these.
 

What happened to Hayden? Family, police just discovered Muncie boy has been missing 5 years, fear he is dead​

Investigators say the disappearance of a 9-year-old boy in Muncie is one of the most disturbing cases they’ve ever seen.

“I can’t ever remember something quite like this,” said Delaware County Prosecutor Eric Hoffman. “It haunts me every day.”

The disappearance of Hayden Manis is unusual, because the child has not been missing for just a few days or weeks or even months.

Hayden has been missing for more than five years.

His disappearance came to light only recently, and the mysterious case — now being reported for the first time by 13 Investigates — has shocked and baffled both police and the boy’s own family.

“Where is Hayden? That’s all we want to know,” his grandfather, Gary Manis, told 13News. “We just need to get him back.”

As family members and law enforcement desperately search for answers, they acknowledge a growing fear that the missing boy might no longer be alive.

The last time Hayden was seen

Hayden’s grandfather and three of his aunts met with 13 Investigates to talk about Hayden and to explain how they determined he was missing.

The last time they saw Hayden was inside his great-grandmother’s Muncie home in late 2019.

“It was Christmas Eve 2019 at our family gathering,” his grandfather explained. “I didn’t notice anything wrong.”



When Hayden left his great-grandmother’s house that Christmas Eve in 2019, he was 4 1/2 years old and living in Muncie with his father, Dustin Manis. Family members describe Dustin as kind and gentle with kids.

But Dustin also had a criminal history involving drugs and alcohol, and his drug use impacted his parenting.

In fact, Hayden’s father and mother both lost custody of their baby son in 2016 after drug tests showed they had been using cocaine. That same year, police also found Hayden and his father in a motel room littered with heroin.

That’s when the Indiana Department of Child Services sent 1-year-old Hayden to live with his grandfather, Gary. The toddler called his grandfather “Paw Paw,” and they grew very close.

But a year and a half later, after Hayden’s father served his court-ordered probation and completed drug treatment and counseling, a judge granted Dustin custody of his son and ordered Hayden be returned to his father. DCS, which had taken Hayden away from his parents following due to their drug use, did not object to Dustin’s petition to regain custody.

Gary did object.

“He’s a drug addict. I told them, I begged them, not to give him back. Wasn’t my choice. Wouldn’t even let me speak in court,” Gary told 13News. “He did what they required of him and they gave [Hayden] back.”

Family got suspicious

At that point, Hayden was about to turn three. Family members say Dustin took Hayden to visit Gary, his aunts, uncles and cousins on a regular basis in 2018 and 2019.
But after a fight between Gary and Dustin, those visits got farther apart. They stopped completely after the Christmas get-together in 2019 — even though Hayden’s relatives kept trying, texting Dustin to invite him and Hayden to family gatherings.


Family text messages reviewed by 13 Investigates show Dustin claimed he moved out of town in August 2021, telling his aunt Barb he was “Doing really good” and that he would try to attend the next family Christmas gathering.

He did not. Dustin eventually stopped responding to texts, worrying his aunts.

The family grew accustomed to not seeing or hearing from Dustin and Hayden, believing Dustin was simply too busy or no longer wanted to visit with his family.


But that changed a few months ago, when Hayden’s two great-grandmothers had a chance encounter at a Muncie grocery store and began discussing the boy. One of the great-grandmothers said Dustin had told her several years ago that he had again lost custody of Hayden to DCS.

“She went straight home and called [Gary] and said, “Something is off, something’s not right,” Shellie explained.

“She sounded worried, like something didn’t sound right, so I went to CPS the next day,” Gary told 13News.

Another family member called police and asked them to check on Hayden.

Police found Dustin. They did not find his son.

And the story Dustin Manis told investigators — that CPS came to his house in 2022, took custody of Hayden and returned him to his mother — did not add up.

That was five months ago. Today, Hayden is still missing.

The family’s growing suspicions quickly turned into what they now describe as a “nightmare.”

“Where’s Hayden? Nobody can come up with Hayden. The last person who was responsible for him … could not provide any information about where he was. And that’s when we realized, I think …” said Shellie, pausing to wipe away tears.

She never finished her sentence. She doesn’t have to.

Shellie and the rest of Hayden’s family now believe something terrible happened to the child, who no one has seen in more than five years.

Hayden’s dad lied to police

He said investigators at the Delaware County Sheriff’s Department have been trying to locate Hayden for five months. They started by interviewing Dustin, who did not tell detectives the truth.

“Did Hayden go back into the custody of the Department of Child Services?” asked 13 Investigates.

“No. That was disproven quite easily, quite quickly,” Hoffman responded, adding that detectives also determined Hayden was not returned to his mother, as Dustin had claimed. “So at that time and as the investigation went on, we knew that was a lie.”

Investigators know what did not happen, but figuring out what did happen has been far more difficult because Hayden was missing for years before police ever learned of his disappearance.

“We think he actually went missing sometime in 2020 but, so far, we have not been able to pinpoint an actual date,” Delaware County Sheriff Chief Deputy Jeff Stanley told 13News.


In November, after sheriff’s investigators questioned Dustin about his son’s disappearance, Muncie Police arrested Hayden’s father on more drug charges. During a traffic stop, officers found Dustin with both heroin and meth.

He spent a few weeks in the Delaware County Jail before one of his grandmothers posted bond and he was released from jail. Four days later, on December 15, Dustin Manis died from a drug overdose.

For investigators, it means the man at the center of their investigation into Hayden’s disappearance is now gone.

“Just because Dustin Manis is dead does not mean the investigation is dead. We’re still going forward,” said the prosecutor. He believes other people have crucial information and know what happened to Hayden.

Looking for evidence

13 Investigates has learned detectives served multiple search warrants related to the disappearance of Hayden.

Sheriff’s deputies searched a home in the town of Eaton — where Dustin periodically lived as recently as last year — and another house in Muncie where Hayden and Dustin lived along with Dustin’s former girlfriend and members of the girlfriend’s family. That home is the last place Hayden was known to be living, but several neighbors told 13 Investigates they never saw him.

“I’ve lived here since 2021 and I’m around here all day. I’ve never seen a little boy running around over there,” said Tracy Heigle, who lives across the street from the house. “If a little boy was there, I would have seen him.”


Another neighbor told 13News he had seen two young girls — daughters of Dustin’s former girlfriend — playing outside the house, but that he had never seen a young boy.

Hoffman confirmed detectives conducted several interviews with Dustin’s former girlfriend and her father (who owned the house). They also searched the yard and removed items from inside the house when they served a search warrant in September.

Since the investigation began a few months ago, the former girlfriend and her father sold the property and moved out of state.

13News reached out to both of them. We have not yet spoken to the girlfriend, but her father told 13 Investigates he and his daughter have both cooperated with investigators and know nothing about Hayden’s disappearance.

He also said detectives took flooring from the bedroom of his house and that his family’s move was planned long before police started asking questions.

No one has been able to lead police to Hayden, and no one has been charged in his disappearance.

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Grandma bails him out, and why would you do that with a chronic and of in trouble drug addict? Just days later he died from ovedose. I'm sure she was devastated if she cared enough to bail him out, by his overdose, but it wasn't a wise thing to do. I'd have said to him, maybe I'llbail you out if you tell LE where your son is. However, he woudn't have because then he'd be charged with murder and not released anyhow.

What did he do for a liiving, sponge off girlfriends and their parents, get help from his own family, etc.? Sell drugs?

Imo there is no hope his child is alive but maybe they can find him. Needle in a haystack though. I wonder if they can still get phone records see where he'd been, etc...2020 does seem likely since he was last to a family gathering at the end of 2019 for the last time and a woman who lived next door had never seen him in 2021...
 

$1,000 reward offered for location of Muncie boy missing for 5 years​

In a collaboration between The Delaware County Sheriff’s Office and the Muncie Police Department, Muncie Crime Stoppers is requesting the public’s help in locating a nine-year-old boy who has been missing for five years.

If Manis is found, tipsters can receive a reward of up to $1,000, Muncie Crime Stoppers said.


Those with information on Manis’s whereabouts are encouraged to call the Delaware County Sheriff’s Department at (765) 747-7885. The phone number for their investigative division is (765) 747-7881.

Those wishing to remain anonymous can also contact Crime Stoppers of Central Indiana at (317) 262-TIPS (8477).
 

What happened to Hayden? | 13 Investigates reveals new details about when Muncie boy was last seen​

13News has discovered new details about the disappearance of Hayden Manis, as detectives in Delaware County desperately seek answers about the Muncie boy who has not been seen in more than four years.

“Certainly we’ve hit a wall,” said Delaware County Prosecutor Eric Hoffman. “The question is, can you go around the wall or climb over the wall? That’s what we’re trying to do now.”

Hoffman said the sheriff’s department received multiple tips after 13 Investigates first broke news of Hayden’s disappearance in early February – years after the boy is believed to have gone missing.

But so far, investigators have no break in the case. No signs of Hayden. No arrest.

13News has also continued investigating the mysterious disappearance, collecting new information from law enforcement, the public and people who knew Hayden.

The details gathered by 13 Investigates from new interviews and never-before-seen police video help establish a new timeline of the disappearance, show revealing information about a key witness questioned by detectives, and provide disturbing insights into what happened inside the home where Hayden lived before he vanished.


“We’re working backwards four years, and it’s literally like chasing a ghost,” Hoffman said, explaining that the long delay in learning of Hayden’s disappearance has proven to be a significant challenge for detectives.

Now, as Hayden’s 10th birthday just passed with no celebration, his family says they still wrestle daily with his disappearance and wonder whether he’s even alive.

“It’s the hardest thing to say that, no, I don’t think he’s with us anymore,” Hayden’s aunt, Taylor Ferrell, told 13News.

“Please, somebody, just give us some answers,” added another aunt, Barb Phillips.


“Dustin was the last legal custodian of Hayden, so obviously that’s where we started,” said the prosecutor, adding that Dustin told detectives the same story he had told his family: Dustin had not seen Hayden in a long time because DCS had come to his house and had taken his son away to go live with the boy’s mother.

“That was disproven quite easily, quite quickly,’’ Hoffman told 13 Investigates. “So at that time and as the investigation went on, we knew that was a lie. He was not telling the truth.”

Hayden was nowhere to be found, and the prosecutor says the boy’s father lied about the last time he had seen him. But without Hayden – and with no proof whether the child is alive or dead – detectives were unable to arrest Dustin Manis for his son’s disappearance.

They did, however, arrest him just a few months later.

A Muncie Police officer stopped Hayden’s father for erratic driving on November 23, 2024 – just a few weeks before Dustin died – and his paranoid behavior quickly caught the officer’s attention.

13 Investigates obtained the officer’s bodycam video from the traffic stop, and it shows Dustin was very nervous.

“Nothing illegal on you?” the officer asked. “Dustin, is there anything illegal inside your car?”

“Nuh-uh… no, not at all,” he replied in an awkward, high-pitched tone that sounds much different than his speaking voice earlier in the police recording.

The officer then inquired about specific drugs, including methamphetamine, marijuana and heroin. Dustin denied possessing any of them. But when the officer asked if he could look inside the vehicle and Dustin said he preferred not to have the car searched, suspicion grew.

“I’m pretty sure there’s something in that car you don’t want me to find,” the officer said, pausing while Dustin again insisted he had no drugs in the vehicle. “I stopped you for a traffic infraction, and your stress level is way up here.”

That’s when Dustin told the officer why he was so nervous.

“I just literally got questioned about my son being missing and whatnot, so I’m just upset about that,” he said, while also admitting there might be “a little bit of [methamphetamine] residue” in the vehicle.

Upon further questioning, Dustin acknowledged that he had a previous arrest for drug possession and had last smoked methamphetamine the previous day. He again told the police officer there was only residue or some drug “crumbles” inside the car.

When another officer with a drug-sniffing K-9 arrived to search the vehicle, Dustin appeared even more nervous, visibly shaking and fighting back tears.

“I’ve never had anybody break down and cry [over crumbles],” the officer said, responding to Dustin’s agitation.

“It’s my grandmother’s car. I don’t want to get in trouble for having anything in there,” Dustin replied.

The K-9 assisted search revealed methamphetamine inside the vehicle. As officers arrested Dustin and began to search his clothing, he admitted to also having heroin and a syringe in his pocket.

Dustin pleaded for leniency as the officers then read his legal rights and took him to the Delaware County jail.

A relative posted Dustin’s bail a few days later. Within a few weeks – under a cloud of suspicion for his son’s disappearance and for repeated drug use – Dustin died from an apparent drug overdose.

Turns out Dustin’s claim to police that he had no drugs was yet another example of him making up a story that was not true, just like the story he told detectives and family members about DCS taking away Hayden.

“There’s a lot of inconsistent information so … it’s a difficult, difficult investigation,” Hoffman said.


Part of the difficulty police are facing is not only finding Hayden but also determining when he vanished. The timeline of Hayden’s disappearance is now a little clearer, thanks to new tips and interviews obtained by 13 Investigates.

Dustin’s family members told 13News the last time they saw Hayden was at a Christmas Eve gathering in 2019. At the time, he was getting presents and seemed excited, according to his aunts.

A poster asking for help in finding the missing Muncie boy states Hayden was last seen just a few days later, in January 2020, according to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.

But 13 Investigates has discovered Hayden was actually seen months later in New Castle, Ind. That tip came to 13News from a woman who says she was at the New Castle Motorsports Park in late August 2020, where she saw Hayden sitting in the second row of spectator stands watching a go-kart race.

13 Investigates spoke to a second person who confirmed he also saw Hayden at the same go-kart race in New Castle.

That’s important because it means Hayden’s disappearance did not happen until at least eight months later than originally thought – a detail that could help investigators as they try to solve this mystery.

“With any missing child case, the timeline turns out to be an extremely important piece of information,” said John Bischoff, a vice president at the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. “Who was in the area at the time of the disappearance, the external circumstances that were taking place at the time the child went missing, those are key evidentiary pieces and valuable to any investigation… and if you don’t have accurate information for your timeline, you don’t know where to look for that evidence.”

The second person who told 13News he saw Hayden at the go-kart track is Paul Hall. He is the father of Crystal Hall, who was Dustin Manis’ girlfriend at the time Hayden is believed to have gone missing.

Paul told 13News he was at the New Castle Motorsports Park in late August 2020 watching his oldest granddaughter participate in a go-kart race. He said Crystal, Dustin and Hayden were also at the track to watch the race, and he did not remember anything unusual about Hayden’s appearance or behavior.

Track records reviewed by 13 Investigates show Paul’s granddaughter raced at the New Castle Motorsports Park on August 30, 2020.

Paul also owned the Muncie home where Hayden, Dustin and Crystal lived (along with Crystal’s two daughters) around the time of the disappearance. They all lived on one side of the house, and Paul and his wife lived on the other side.

“Dustin and Hayden actually did live on my property,” Paul told 13News. “Hayden actually called me ‘Mr. Grandpa’ while he was there. I babysat him several times.”
13 Investigates talked with Paul on multiple occasions over the past six months. He does not want to meet in person to discuss Hayden’s disappearance because he said he fears an in-person interview could subject his family to harassment.

But Paul did agree to several recorded phone interviews to share what he knows.

And he knows a lot.


As a longtime guitarist in a popular Muncie rock band, Paul said Hayden took an interest in his music. Paul told 13News he bought a guitar in 2020 to give Hayden for Christmas.

“That’s something that we were going to start doing is show him how to play the guitar,” Paul recalled. But before he could start giving Hayden lessons, Paul said Hayden was no longer living at his house. When he had not seen Hayden for a noticeable period of time, Paul said he asked Dustin where the boy was.

“I had asked, ‘Hey, where's Hayden?'” because I hadn't seen him for a week or two, and I wanted to see about giving them those lessons. And that's when I was told that the mom had had a DNA test and that Hayden went with his mom,” Paul said. “We've heard the story now that, you know, Child Services was the ones that did that. That is not the story I got. I only got that a DNA test was done, and that Dustin wasn't the father and that Hayden went to live with his mother.”

Paul told 13 Investigates he did not discover that Dustin’s story was untrue until much later – in September 2024 – when one of Dustin’s grandmothers left a note on his door. That note, written on a piece of paper towel, asked Paul to call about Hayden. He said that’s when he first discovered Hayden was missing and had never gone to live with his mother.


Paul said as soon as he learned there was an investigation into Hayden’s disappearance, he quickly called the Delaware County Sheriff’s Department to tell investigators Hayden and Dustin had lived in his house.

He recalled local detectives and investigators from the state crime lab then arriving at his house last September to search the property with cadaver dogs, and Paul said he agreed to the searches without a warrant.

“I signed a waiver allowing them to have access to anything and everything that they needed,” Paul told 13News. “They went under the house. They went in the attic … I was just hoping and praying, you know, that we could find out what had actually happened.”

He said investigators questioned him about what he could remember and later returned to the house to take evidence, including a “section of the floor out of the master closet” from the side of the house where Hayden had lived. Paul said he remembers a conversation with one of the police officers about the flooring seized by detectives.

“He says, ‘What do you think this means with us asking for this?’ And, you know, I remember answering him. I says, ‘I think that means that you guys think something might have happened to him in my house,’” Paul said.


While Paul told 13 Investigates he now believes Dustin harmed Hayden, he said he never saw signs of abuse or neglect while Hayden lived on his property.

“Never once did I ever hear, you know, any abuse, cries, did I see any marks on that little boy,” he said. “The whole time he was at my house, if I would have saw a bruise or a mark or any sign on Hayden, I would have been the one in jail because I'd have handed it to Dustin … If I'd have seen anything, I would have acted on it.”

Paul also said he tried to watch out for Hayden, even confronting Dustin when a relative contacted Paul personally to express concern that Hayden was possibly being kept inside the house in a dog cage.

“We could not back up that story whatsoever,” Paul told 13News. “We looked. We never saw any cage. Never saw anything even resembling that.”

He acknowledged he did not spend much time looking through the house to verify if the allegation was true because, according to Paul, he tried to spend as little time as possible on the side of the house where Hayden lived with Dustin and Crystal. He said he wanted to give them privacy, and the residence was usually a mess.

“I was pretty disgusted by the condition of that side of the property, but I did just do a quick walk-through to see if I saw anything that looked, you know, funky to me. And other than the nastiness in there, I did not,” Paul said.


The conversation with Paul then shifted to talking about his daughter, Crystal, who detectives have also interviewed about Hayden’s disappearance.
Paul described his daughter as “caring, kind … and a pretty good and effective parent.” He also said he does not always agree with her decisions and acknowledged having a strained relationship with Crystal due to the condition in which she left Paul’s Muncie home while she lived there with Dustin and Hayden.

Paul told 13 Investigates that his daughter worked closely with the sheriff’s department to record her conversations with Dustin as detectives investigated Hayden’s disappearance last fall. He said Crystal also suspects Hayden’s disappearance is directly tied to Dustin.

“She has absolutely no desire to talk about any of this,” Crystal’s father said. “She just said, ‘I’m not answering anybody’s questions. If anyone wants to know anything, they’ll have to get the information from the police.’”

Asked about Crystal’s silence, Paul said he does not agree with his daughter’s decision.

“I’d like to tell you I understand it, but honestly, I don’t… I don’t understand why she won’t talk to anybody. That is a concern for me,” he said.


While Crystal's father expressed concern about his daughter's unwillingness to answer questions, he also shared another concern with 13News: disturbing changes he saw both in Dustin and inside the house once Hayden was gone.

Paul said Dustin was “a changed human being” after Hayden was no longer at the house, and he noticed both money and personal items were disappearing while, at the same time, Dustin and Crystal were not paying their bills.

“He wasn't like that prior to Hayden not being there, you know. I actually saw him as a dude that was trying to get his life together,” Paul said.

He told 13News, Dustin admitted to Paul that “he had some issues with drugs” but had never discussed with him the extent of those issues. As a former addict who stopped using drugs more than 20 years ago, Paul said he can spot signs of drug use, but only recognized Dustin’s drug problems after Hayden was gone.

“I feel stupid because I didn’t catch it [sooner],” he said. “I saw that something was going on with him. I wish I would have put two and two together … the signs were definitely there.”

Paul said he had a “heart-to-heart” with Dustin and his daughter at some point after Hayden was no longer at the house “about getting their sh** together” and paying their bills. When things didn’t change, Paul said he went to throw Dustin out of the house and discovered Dustin had left just a few minutes earlier. Paul told 13News he chased after Dustin in his truck, and once he caught up to him, he “smacked that a**hole around” with a stick because he felt disrespected by Dustin after repeated attempts to help him.




 

What happened to Hayden? | 13 Investigates reveals new details about when Muncie boy was last seen​

13News has discovered new details about the disappearance of Hayden Manis, as detectives in Delaware County desperately seek answers about the Muncie boy who has not been seen in more than four years.

“Certainly we’ve hit a wall,” said Delaware County Prosecutor Eric Hoffman. “The question is, can you go around the wall or climb over the wall? That’s what we’re trying to do now.”

Hoffman said the sheriff’s department received multiple tips after 13 Investigates first broke news of Hayden’s disappearance in early February – years after the boy is believed to have gone missing.

But so far, investigators have no break in the case. No signs of Hayden. No arrest.

13News has also continued investigating the mysterious disappearance, collecting new information from law enforcement, the public and people who knew Hayden.

The details gathered by 13 Investigates from new interviews and never-before-seen police video help establish a new timeline of the disappearance, show revealing information about a key witness questioned by detectives, and provide disturbing insights into what happened inside the home where Hayden lived before he vanished.


“We’re working backwards four years, and it’s literally like chasing a ghost,” Hoffman said, explaining that the long delay in learning of Hayden’s disappearance has proven to be a significant challenge for detectives.

Now, as Hayden’s 10th birthday just passed with no celebration, his family says they still wrestle daily with his disappearance and wonder whether he’s even alive.

“It’s the hardest thing to say that, no, I don’t think he’s with us anymore,” Hayden’s aunt, Taylor Ferrell, told 13News.

“Please, somebody, just give us some answers,” added another aunt, Barb Phillips.


“Dustin was the last legal custodian of Hayden, so obviously that’s where we started,” said the prosecutor, adding that Dustin told detectives the same story he had told his family: Dustin had not seen Hayden in a long time because DCS had come to his house and had taken his son away to go live with the boy’s mother.

“That was disproven quite easily, quite quickly,’’ Hoffman told 13 Investigates. “So at that time and as the investigation went on, we knew that was a lie. He was not telling the truth.”

Hayden was nowhere to be found, and the prosecutor says the boy’s father lied about the last time he had seen him. But without Hayden – and with no proof whether the child is alive or dead – detectives were unable to arrest Dustin Manis for his son’s disappearance.

They did, however, arrest him just a few months later.

A Muncie Police officer stopped Hayden’s father for erratic driving on November 23, 2024 – just a few weeks before Dustin died – and his paranoid behavior quickly caught the officer’s attention.

13 Investigates obtained the officer’s bodycam video from the traffic stop, and it shows Dustin was very nervous.

“Nothing illegal on you?” the officer asked. “Dustin, is there anything illegal inside your car?”

“Nuh-uh… no, not at all,” he replied in an awkward, high-pitched tone that sounds much different than his speaking voice earlier in the police recording.

The officer then inquired about specific drugs, including methamphetamine, marijuana and heroin. Dustin denied possessing any of them. But when the officer asked if he could look inside the vehicle and Dustin said he preferred not to have the car searched, suspicion grew.

“I’m pretty sure there’s something in that car you don’t want me to find,” the officer said, pausing while Dustin again insisted he had no drugs in the vehicle. “I stopped you for a traffic infraction, and your stress level is way up here.”

That’s when Dustin told the officer why he was so nervous.

“I just literally got questioned about my son being missing and whatnot, so I’m just upset about that,” he said, while also admitting there might be “a little bit of [methamphetamine] residue” in the vehicle.

Upon further questioning, Dustin acknowledged that he had a previous arrest for drug possession and had last smoked methamphetamine the previous day. He again told the police officer there was only residue or some drug “crumbles” inside the car.

When another officer with a drug-sniffing K-9 arrived to search the vehicle, Dustin appeared even more nervous, visibly shaking and fighting back tears.

“I’ve never had anybody break down and cry [over crumbles],” the officer said, responding to Dustin’s agitation.

“It’s my grandmother’s car. I don’t want to get in trouble for having anything in there,” Dustin replied.

The K-9 assisted search revealed methamphetamine inside the vehicle. As officers arrested Dustin and began to search his clothing, he admitted to also having heroin and a syringe in his pocket.

Dustin pleaded for leniency as the officers then read his legal rights and took him to the Delaware County jail.

A relative posted Dustin’s bail a few days later. Within a few weeks – under a cloud of suspicion for his son’s disappearance and for repeated drug use – Dustin died from an apparent drug overdose.

Turns out Dustin’s claim to police that he had no drugs was yet another example of him making up a story that was not true, just like the story he told detectives and family members about DCS taking away Hayden.

“There’s a lot of inconsistent information so … it’s a difficult, difficult investigation,” Hoffman said.


Part of the difficulty police are facing is not only finding Hayden but also determining when he vanished. The timeline of Hayden’s disappearance is now a little clearer, thanks to new tips and interviews obtained by 13 Investigates.

Dustin’s family members told 13News the last time they saw Hayden was at a Christmas Eve gathering in 2019. At the time, he was getting presents and seemed excited, according to his aunts.

A poster asking for help in finding the missing Muncie boy states Hayden was last seen just a few days later, in January 2020, according to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.

But 13 Investigates has discovered Hayden was actually seen months later in New Castle, Ind. That tip came to 13News from a woman who says she was at the New Castle Motorsports Park in late August 2020, where she saw Hayden sitting in the second row of spectator stands watching a go-kart race.

13 Investigates spoke to a second person who confirmed he also saw Hayden at the same go-kart race in New Castle.

That’s important because it means Hayden’s disappearance did not happen until at least eight months later than originally thought – a detail that could help investigators as they try to solve this mystery.

“With any missing child case, the timeline turns out to be an extremely important piece of information,” said John Bischoff, a vice president at the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. “Who was in the area at the time of the disappearance, the external circumstances that were taking place at the time the child went missing, those are key evidentiary pieces and valuable to any investigation… and if you don’t have accurate information for your timeline, you don’t know where to look for that evidence.”

The second person who told 13News he saw Hayden at the go-kart track is Paul Hall. He is the father of Crystal Hall, who was Dustin Manis’ girlfriend at the time Hayden is believed to have gone missing.

Paul told 13News he was at the New Castle Motorsports Park in late August 2020 watching his oldest granddaughter participate in a go-kart race. He said Crystal, Dustin and Hayden were also at the track to watch the race, and he did not remember anything unusual about Hayden’s appearance or behavior.

Track records reviewed by 13 Investigates show Paul’s granddaughter raced at the New Castle Motorsports Park on August 30, 2020.

Paul also owned the Muncie home where Hayden, Dustin and Crystal lived (along with Crystal’s two daughters) around the time of the disappearance. They all lived on one side of the house, and Paul and his wife lived on the other side.

“Dustin and Hayden actually did live on my property,” Paul told 13News. “Hayden actually called me ‘Mr. Grandpa’ while he was there. I babysat him several times.”
13 Investigates talked with Paul on multiple occasions over the past six months. He does not want to meet in person to discuss Hayden’s disappearance because he said he fears an in-person interview could subject his family to harassment.

But Paul did agree to several recorded phone interviews to share what he knows.

And he knows a lot.


As a longtime guitarist in a popular Muncie rock band, Paul said Hayden took an interest in his music. Paul told 13News he bought a guitar in 2020 to give Hayden for Christmas.

“That’s something that we were going to start doing is show him how to play the guitar,” Paul recalled. But before he could start giving Hayden lessons, Paul said Hayden was no longer living at his house. When he had not seen Hayden for a noticeable period of time, Paul said he asked Dustin where the boy was.

“I had asked, ‘Hey, where's Hayden?'” because I hadn't seen him for a week or two, and I wanted to see about giving them those lessons. And that's when I was told that the mom had had a DNA test and that Hayden went with his mom,” Paul said. “We've heard the story now that, you know, Child Services was the ones that did that. That is not the story I got. I only got that a DNA test was done, and that Dustin wasn't the father and that Hayden went to live with his mother.”

Paul told 13 Investigates he did not discover that Dustin’s story was untrue until much later – in September 2024 – when one of Dustin’s grandmothers left a note on his door. That note, written on a piece of paper towel, asked Paul to call about Hayden. He said that’s when he first discovered Hayden was missing and had never gone to live with his mother.


Paul said as soon as he learned there was an investigation into Hayden’s disappearance, he quickly called the Delaware County Sheriff’s Department to tell investigators Hayden and Dustin had lived in his house.

He recalled local detectives and investigators from the state crime lab then arriving at his house last September to search the property with cadaver dogs, and Paul said he agreed to the searches without a warrant.

“I signed a waiver allowing them to have access to anything and everything that they needed,” Paul told 13News. “They went under the house. They went in the attic … I was just hoping and praying, you know, that we could find out what had actually happened.”

He said investigators questioned him about what he could remember and later returned to the house to take evidence, including a “section of the floor out of the master closet” from the side of the house where Hayden had lived. Paul said he remembers a conversation with one of the police officers about the flooring seized by detectives.

“He says, ‘What do you think this means with us asking for this?’ And, you know, I remember answering him. I says, ‘I think that means that you guys think something might have happened to him in my house,’” Paul said.


While Paul told 13 Investigates he now believes Dustin harmed Hayden, he said he never saw signs of abuse or neglect while Hayden lived on his property.

“Never once did I ever hear, you know, any abuse, cries, did I see any marks on that little boy,” he said. “The whole time he was at my house, if I would have saw a bruise or a mark or any sign on Hayden, I would have been the one in jail because I'd have handed it to Dustin … If I'd have seen anything, I would have acted on it.”

Paul also said he tried to watch out for Hayden, even confronting Dustin when a relative contacted Paul personally to express concern that Hayden was possibly being kept inside the house in a dog cage.

“We could not back up that story whatsoever,” Paul told 13News. “We looked. We never saw any cage. Never saw anything even resembling that.”

He acknowledged he did not spend much time looking through the house to verify if the allegation was true because, according to Paul, he tried to spend as little time as possible on the side of the house where Hayden lived with Dustin and Crystal. He said he wanted to give them privacy, and the residence was usually a mess.

“I was pretty disgusted by the condition of that side of the property, but I did just do a quick walk-through to see if I saw anything that looked, you know, funky to me. And other than the nastiness in there, I did not,” Paul said.


The conversation with Paul then shifted to talking about his daughter, Crystal, who detectives have also interviewed about Hayden’s disappearance.
Paul described his daughter as “caring, kind … and a pretty good and effective parent.” He also said he does not always agree with her decisions and acknowledged having a strained relationship with Crystal due to the condition in which she left Paul’s Muncie home while she lived there with Dustin and Hayden.

Paul told 13 Investigates that his daughter worked closely with the sheriff’s department to record her conversations with Dustin as detectives investigated Hayden’s disappearance last fall. He said Crystal also suspects Hayden’s disappearance is directly tied to Dustin.

“She has absolutely no desire to talk about any of this,” Crystal’s father said. “She just said, ‘I’m not answering anybody’s questions. If anyone wants to know anything, they’ll have to get the information from the police.’”

Asked about Crystal’s silence, Paul said he does not agree with his daughter’s decision.

“I’d like to tell you I understand it, but honestly, I don’t… I don’t understand why she won’t talk to anybody. That is a concern for me,” he said.


While Crystal's father expressed concern about his daughter's unwillingness to answer questions, he also shared another concern with 13News: disturbing changes he saw both in Dustin and inside the house once Hayden was gone.

Paul said Dustin was “a changed human being” after Hayden was no longer at the house, and he noticed both money and personal items were disappearing while, at the same time, Dustin and Crystal were not paying their bills.

“He wasn't like that prior to Hayden not being there, you know. I actually saw him as a dude that was trying to get his life together,” Paul said.

He told 13News, Dustin admitted to Paul that “he had some issues with drugs” but had never discussed with him the extent of those issues. As a former addict who stopped using drugs more than 20 years ago, Paul said he can spot signs of drug use, but only recognized Dustin’s drug problems after Hayden was gone.

“I feel stupid because I didn’t catch it [sooner],” he said. “I saw that something was going on with him. I wish I would have put two and two together … the signs were definitely there.”

Paul said he had a “heart-to-heart” with Dustin and his daughter at some point after Hayden was no longer at the house “about getting their sh** together” and paying their bills. When things didn’t change, Paul said he went to throw Dustin out of the house and discovered Dustin had left just a few minutes earlier. Paul told 13News he chased after Dustin in his truck, and once he caught up to him, he “smacked that a**hole around” with a stick because he felt disrespected by Dustin after repeated attempts to help him.





Most of the time when people are constantly asking for money and their bills still aren't paid, the most likely reason is drugs/alcohol abuse.
 

What happened to Hayden? New details suggest missing Muncie boy is dead, body put in trash compactor​

Sources close to the investigation confirmed for 13News that a woman who used to live with Hayden around the time he vanished provided investigators with a somber account of what happened to the 5-year-old boy.

Those sources, who agreed to speak with 13 Investigates on the condition of anonymity, say Crystal Hall told detectives last fall that Hayden is dead and that she disposed of his body in a trash compactor at a truck stop. 13News has not yet learned how Hayden died.

Crystal is the former girlfriend of Hayden’s father, Dustin Manis, and she lived in the same Muncie house with Hayden and Dustin in 2020 – the last time Hayden was seen alive. Crystal and her family moved to Nevada in late 2024, shortly after police started investigating Hayden’s disappearance in September.

After Crystal repeatedly ignored questions from 13News, 13 Investigates traveled to Nevada to speak with her. Crystal denied that she told investigators she disposed of the boy’s body.


The Delaware County Sheriff’s Department tells 13News it will not discuss sensitive details about an ongoing investigation. Neither will Delaware County prosecutor Eric Hoffman.

“This is an active, open investigation, and I don’t want to taint that,” Hoffman said. When asked directly if Crystal told investigators that she disposed of Hayden’s body, he declined to provide more information.

“I don’t want to get into the contents of her various statements to police. I don’t want to confirm or deny that,” Hoffman told 13News. During an earlier interview, Hoffman said he does not believe Hayden is still alive.
 

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