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So it was bio dad. My God. I honestly want to be on it but I know when I shouldn't go into more or I have tried to learn, as far as details. It made me think of that NY case but I needed to be sure it was bio dad first. So they were BOTH likely abusing him, that's how that case was. The absolute depravity of some. I'd actually like to see her wicked face but not going there either. I know I am at my end with such, almost did not come back in.

You are the best at answering and helping. It bothers me I cant think of the name of that case but it was not COVERED either NEAR what it should have been like they tried to shut it down, reminds me of Gilgo but entirely different cases but both the NYC area.... NOTHING ALIKE but if there are places in our country politics dominate (starting to in in all places), NYC would be one. DC another of course. DAd was a cop and mom couldn't get any help no matter HOW she tried. On a better day, I can find the name. Not now. But that's not this case anyhow.

So the daughters knew, dad knew and likely participated or had no problem with it. Even without reading up on this one, that seems like a totally reasonable conclusion. Those of you that have followed would know more.

Oh I saw the last post first. I just saw her face above, think your post. I have to look back. I do need to avoid going too far into it. Right now anyhow. I'm glad though the thread got up and all and moved.

I care about all cases, just sometimes can't do them and try to realize when. Does anyone else go through that? Maybe it's just me but sometimes it is just too much after taking in too much and especially certain ones.

It's why I go to cooking although an interest too and lately some over the top fiction thing on Netflix. Rare with that, or I just take a break. It is like watching news all of the time. I see that in my mom even if it is not crime. She watches too much. Used to do that yrs ago myself.

Anyhow, trying not to wander so will stop. Or get negative. Yet I care about all cases so it can be a struggle.

Some just bury their heads in the sand and stay uninvolved, in their own bubble. I get it, that's what's been done to us all over years and years. And it is also what let it go this far in some things.

Okay, NOW I know I need to stop.

I'm only going to do posts and surface on this for now. IF I continue doing that. I've been hitting a point for awhile I think, and life and injury don't help. But a week or so again hearing Charles call in Daybell sent me about over... I try to recognize the signs...

Does it ever get to you? All the bad sh*t? Just asking everyone, not just you.
Not really, i think because I dont go onto too many cases.
 
Okayyyy so what about dad then? So dad was there through most of this...? What I mean is was it dad that just died last year was the husband? Trust me, not sure why I am even looking but trust me, I cannot read on it right now. I can maybe do comments but reading it will probably send me over. Just can't.

Do you know of the NY one, they weren't adults but it was a bio dad and stepmom? It didn't ever get the press it should have either, by a long shot. I just take in too many, I believe we all need to to call attn but it gets to be a lot. I HOPE you watch for that too, recognizing when it is too much. He was a cop, not a big one but the bio mom was calling and messaging online and trying to fight in court that the boys were being abused and I think she messaged the president even. Talk about getting upset with the system, I have little good to say about the NYC area and their system.

I guess I should ask first if the hub who died was the bio dad?

I want to help give this case talk and attn, why I came in and know it is one that matters to you. they all do, here too. I just have to stop at times.
Yes his dad was the husband that died just last year. Though he isn't here to speak for himself he obviously was well aware or involved in the treatment of his son
 
Not really, i think because I dont go onto too many cases.
I actually see you in more lately than I ever did. Amount of time probably changes for all of us. For me it took awhile but it can take a toll. I try to recognize it now but I still don't always. Think since I feel I am close to that again, just like to let all know if they don't realize that it can. Still i struggle to recognize it as my thing is following crime so the instinct is to keep doing it.

Anyhow, I just don't feel ready for this one. I care of course but it would add to the toll. I do truly believe however people need to take notice and say something and hoping I will get more into it when life and cases settle a bit.
 

State files protective order to keep secret the identity of Waterbury man allegedly held captive​

Another pre-trial hearing was held on Tuesday in the case of a Waterbury woman accused of holding her stepson captive for 20 years.

Kimberly Sullivan was not in attendance for the appearance, but will be made to attend the next hearing on August 19.

The state’s attorney filed a protective order relating to the victim’s medical records, hoping to keep his identity private.

“The state intends to file a motion in this case in regards to protective orders in regards to the victim’s medical treatment and condition regarding the exclusion of his name,” the state’s attorney said to the judge in court Tuesday. “The victim has now assumed a different name post-arrest of Ms. Sullivan. The state feels that we need a protective order in regards to the new name which has been assumed by the victim.”

Sullivan’s attorney, Ioannis Kaloidis, said he’s prepared to push back against that protective order.

“We will be prepared to object to that, and can be ready to argue it whenever the court determines is appropriate,” Kaloidis said to the judge.

Kaloidis wants to see the victim’s medical records because he said he wants proof that he was 68 pounds when found by first responders back in February, after he set fire to his room. First responders said he was in an ‘extremely emaciated’ state.

“I don’t believe something just because the police say it. I need to see evidence. And just because someone’s 68 pounds doesn’t mean anything to me,” Kaloidis said. “There’s a claim that he was starved, near death, we heard about Holocaust. I haven’t seen anything to support that, so, if those are the claims they’re making at trial, we’d like to see it. I’ve seen nothing to support those claims.”

The next court date is scheduled for August 19, and Sullivan, who’s on GPS monitoring, will be required to attend.
 

DCF says it followed protocols in case of Waterbury man who says his stepmom held him captive for 20 years​

The state Department of Children and Families said it followed protocols in the case of a man who said he was held captive in his family’s Waterbury home for 20 years, from the time he was a boy until he set a fire inside the home in February to escape.


The victim's school had contacted the Department of Children and Families when he was in fourth grade and DCF responded to the Blake Street home twice.

S said he was taken out of school after those visits.

DCF Commissioner Jodi Hill-Lilly said in a statement that the department followed the protocols that were in place at the time.

"Our involvement with the family was 20 years ago and our review to date shows that our case practice was consistent with agency standards at the time and that we did not deviate from our policies and practices. It is worthy to note that our policies and practices have significantly evolved over the past two decades and we are prepared to discuss those changes,” Hill-Lilly said.

She said there will be a meeting next week with members of the legislative children's committee to provide them with an update of the DCF review of the case.

Sullivan is due in court on Aug. 19.
 

I-Team: DCF visited home of Waterbury captivity case 6 times over 9 years; family pediatrician found “no concerns” for stepson at time​

Late Tuesday afternoon, state lawmakers met with the Department of Children and Families to discuss the Kimberly Sullivan case. She’s the woman accused of keeping her stepson captive for two decades.

That meeting was kept private from the public and the media. DCF tells me they requested Tuesday’s meeting with the Committee on Children to discuss their months-long review of records related to the Kimberly Sullivan case and past case practice.

The Department of Children and Families just released some of that review to the I-Team, which included new information the public and media did not previously know.

DCF says their “evaluation included a detailed review of all records, reconstruction of the policies and procedures in place two decades ago (many of which have since been updated), and interviews with current staff who worked on the case.”

A spokesperson says the review found:

-Over the course of nine years (1996-2005), DCF received six reports about the Sullivan home. Each was investigated.

- Announced and unannounced visits, including after-hours home visits, were conducted in an effort to more effectively engage all family members.

- Each investigation involved assessing home conditions, and food availability was observed and documented at that time.

- When allowed, the children were interviewed alone and apart from their parents. The interviews resulted in no disclosure of abuse or neglect. DCF also noted that under Connecticut law at the time (C.G.S. §17a-101h), DCF was only authorized to interview a child without parental consent in cases involving allegations of abuse—not neglect which was the report made against this family. That law was amended in 2018 to include neglect cases.

- The DCF investigator contacted the child’s pediatrician, who noted no concerns. DCF was in ongoing communication with both the pediatrician and the school nurse to assess whether there was an underlying medical explanation for the child’s small stature and food seeking behavior.

- Based on the information available and the statutory requirements in place at the time, we did not have sufficient evidence to substantiate the allegations or remove the child from the home.

The I-Team was told by DCF that chairs of the Children’s Committee requested the meeting be private. Co-Chair, Representative Corey Paris tells me it wasn’t about secrecy, he says it was about “protecting the integrity of an ongoing and active criminal investigation” and that per state law, DCF can’t release all details because of family privacy laws and laws involving minors.

Previously, we knew from police reports that the alleged survivor knows as “S” was removed from Waterbury Public Schools at the age of 11. “S” told police, he was told to lie to DCF and say everything was fine when they visited the home. School staff had reported the Sullivan family to investigators after noticing the boy appeared to be constantly starving.

The I-Team spoke with both Representative Paris and Senator Jason Perillo who attended DCF’s briefing.

The consensus is that DCF did everything right at the time.

“We’re talking about the DCF 20 years ago, not the DCF of today - which has changed immensely given the powers that they had at the time, given their protocols, given how they go through overseeing many of these cases - they did everything that they were supposed to do above board during that time. But when a young person is taken out of the system or the parents refuse to allow for DCF to continue to come into their homes, there’s only so much that they can do,” says Representative Paris.

“I think DCF is trying to do the work that they need to do to get us some answers, to clarify solutions to problems they’ve identified. I think that where we were 20 years ago is not what we are today. I think we’ve already done some things since the statute that have helped to minimize the likelihood of this in the future, but I don’t think we’re there yet. I don’t think we can spike the ball. I think there’s work for the legislature to do. I think there’s work for the agency to do,” says Senator Jason Perillo.

State Senator Ceci Maher (D-Wilton), Senate Chair of the Committee on Children, also attended the meeting and released the following statement:

“As the ongoing, extremely disturbing Waterbury case proceeds, we need to understand how it evolved so we can better protect children now and in future circumstances,” said Sen. Maher. ”In an important conversation this afternoon, DCF provided increased transparency and described how their procedures have evolved over the last 20 years as well as promised to release a statement. I hope to receive more updates from them as more information is available with the ongoing legal case. I will continue working with colleagues and advocates to review and update our statutes for DCF and educational oversight to make sure horrors like these do not occur again.”
 

I-Team: DCF visited home of Waterbury captivity case 6 times over 9 years; family pediatrician found “no concerns” for stepson at time​

Late Tuesday afternoon, state lawmakers met with the Department of Children and Families to discuss the Kimberly Sullivan case. She’s the woman accused of keeping her stepson captive for two decades.

That meeting was kept private from the public and the media. DCF tells me they requested Tuesday’s meeting with the Committee on Children to discuss their months-long review of records related to the Kimberly Sullivan case and past case practice.

The Department of Children and Families just released some of that review to the I-Team, which included new information the public and media did not previously know.

DCF says their “evaluation included a detailed review of all records, reconstruction of the policies and procedures in place two decades ago (many of which have since been updated), and interviews with current staff who worked on the case.”

A spokesperson says the review found:

-Over the course of nine years (1996-2005), DCF received six reports about the Sullivan home. Each was investigated.

- Announced and unannounced visits, including after-hours home visits, were conducted in an effort to more effectively engage all family members.

- Each investigation involved assessing home conditions, and food availability was observed and documented at that time.

- When allowed, the children were interviewed alone and apart from their parents. The interviews resulted in no disclosure of abuse or neglect. DCF also noted that under Connecticut law at the time (C.G.S. §17a-101h), DCF was only authorized to interview a child without parental consent in cases involving allegations of abuse—not neglect which was the report made against this family. That law was amended in 2018 to include neglect cases.

- The DCF investigator contacted the child’s pediatrician, who noted no concerns. DCF was in ongoing communication with both the pediatrician and the school nurse to assess whether there was an underlying medical explanation for the child’s small stature and food seeking behavior.

- Based on the information available and the statutory requirements in place at the time, we did not have sufficient evidence to substantiate the allegations or remove the child from the home.

The I-Team was told by DCF that chairs of the Children’s Committee requested the meeting be private. Co-Chair, Representative Corey Paris tells me it wasn’t about secrecy, he says it was about “protecting the integrity of an ongoing and active criminal investigation” and that per state law, DCF can’t release all details because of family privacy laws and laws involving minors.

Previously, we knew from police reports that the alleged survivor knows as “S” was removed from Waterbury Public Schools at the age of 11. “S” told police, he was told to lie to DCF and say everything was fine when they visited the home. School staff had reported the Sullivan family to investigators after noticing the boy appeared to be constantly starving.

The I-Team spoke with both Representative Paris and Senator Jason Perillo who attended DCF’s briefing.

The consensus is that DCF did everything right at the time.

“We’re talking about the DCF 20 years ago, not the DCF of today - which has changed immensely given the powers that they had at the time, given their protocols, given how they go through overseeing many of these cases - they did everything that they were supposed to do above board during that time. But when a young person is taken out of the system or the parents refuse to allow for DCF to continue to come into their homes, there’s only so much that they can do,” says Representative Paris.

“I think DCF is trying to do the work that they need to do to get us some answers, to clarify solutions to problems they’ve identified. I think that where we were 20 years ago is not what we are today. I think we’ve already done some things since the statute that have helped to minimize the likelihood of this in the future, but I don’t think we’re there yet. I don’t think we can spike the ball. I think there’s work for the legislature to do. I think there’s work for the agency to do,” says Senator Jason Perillo.

State Senator Ceci Maher (D-Wilton), Senate Chair of the Committee on Children, also attended the meeting and released the following statement:

“As the ongoing, extremely disturbing Waterbury case proceeds, we need to understand how it evolved so we can better protect children now and in future circumstances,” said Sen. Maher. ”In an important conversation this afternoon, DCF provided increased transparency and described how their procedures have evolved over the last 20 years as well as promised to release a statement. I hope to receive more updates from them as more information is available with the ongoing legal case. I will continue working with colleagues and advocates to review and update our statutes for DCF and educational oversight to make sure horrors like these do not occur again.”

Interesting...
Connecticut law at the time (C.G.S. §17a-101h), DCF was only authorized to interview a child without parental consent in cases involving allegations of abuse—not neglect which was the report made against this family. That law was amended in 2018 to include neglect cases.
 

Legal battle over medical records unfolds in torture case against Waterbury stepmother​

A key legal dispute is unfolding in the case of Kimberly Sullivan, the Waterbury woman accused of imprisoning and torturing her stepson for more than two decades.

On Friday, attorneys returned to Waterbury Superior Court for a hearing that could shape the direction of the prosecution.

At the center of the courtroom dispute were the medical records of the victim, who investigators said was rescued after being subjected to years of abuse.


Defense attorneys have been arguing that they haven’t received all of the victim’s medical records. They said the records are critical to preparing their case.

Sullivan’s attorney objected to the prosecution’s request for more time to provide the records.

Prosecutors said redactions are necessary to protect the victim’s identity after he changed his name for privacy reasons.

The state maintained that redacting the new name is essential for preserving the victim’s anonymity.

Sullivan’s lawyer, however, insisted that all relevant information should immediately be turned over. He argued that his client is “fighting for her life” and is entitled to the full scope of evidence.

He believes the victims name should be made public.

“We believe there is absolutely no reason whatsoever to shield the accuser from my client. In fact, my client has a right to confrontation, has a right to confront her accuser in a public setting. If her accuser wants to hide and be anonymous, well that’s not how this works,” said Ioannis Kaloidis, Kimberly Sullivan’s attorney.

Sullivan remained expressionless during the hearing, and did not speak inside or outside the courtroom.

She is due back in court on Oct. 31st. That is when a decision on the release of her stepson’s medical records is expected.

During todays court hearing, the only decision made was that Sullivan can return to her Blake Street home.
 
Tough one. My heart says he should be protected and his name but I don't think the law supports that when an adult for sure.. In general I believe names should be public but a case like this makes it tough to feel that way.
 
Tough one. My heart says he should be protected and his name but I don't think the law supports that when an adult for sure.. In general I believe names should be public but a case like this makes it tough to feel that way.
I totally agree. I get she has rights but her accuser is the victim in this case so he should be protected especially since this started when he was a child
 

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